How To Make Women Melt ( By Gimmy Dagar )

        How To Make Women Melt

Few men are blessed with a scriptwriter to produce the perfect words and actions that will have women swooning. In the movies, it seems so straightforward. In some respects, it is, provided you're genuine and focused on how much she means to you.

Knowing what to say and do to make a woman's heart melt is one part listening, one part knowing your woman inside-out, and one part self-trust.In this article, you'll learn some of the ways that can make a woman melt, resulting in you remaining the most appealing man in her life and her feeling as special as it's possible to feel.

 

 

 

Steps

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   Respect her intelligence.
   Respect her intelligence. Respecting a woman's intelligence shows that you hold her in high personal regard. This means putting aside the corny pick-up lines, gender jokes or put-downs, setting aside any laziness about pulling your weight in daily chores, and refusing to make assumptions that she wants to be babied. Flirt with her intelligence as much as her beauty and sexiness and you'll make her melt.
   
   
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   Demonstrate that you're her friend.
   Demonstrate that you're her friend. Friendship is melt-worthy because it indicates your intention to be by her side long-term regardless of your status as partner or lover. Being a friend shows that you're willing to be there through thick and thin, that you're trustworthy, and that you esteem her as someone in whom you're willing to share the deepest confidences. Letting her know that you count her as a best friend will cause her to melt because women place great value on friendships and see friendship as being at the heart of any good relationship.
   • Tell her that she is your best friend, or the dearest friend you've ever had. She will be filled with joy to hear this. Remind her frequently.
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   Tell her how much she is appreciated.
   Tell her how much she is appreciated. You can never underestimate the power of appreciating another person for who they are, particularly the special woman in your life. It isn't enough to just say that you're thankful to have her in your life; it's important to spell out why. The details matter because they go to the core of who she is and how her essence is reflected in your eyes. If you're able to produce one little detail that reveals why you are personally appreciative of the fact that she is in your life, you will likely make her melt.
   • Notice what she does to help others, including yourself, and make a comment about how much you value her generosity and kindness. Tell her that you really appreciate her ability to help and care for others.
   • Pay attention to her appearance changes – tell her you love her new hair style or her new clothes. Paying attention to these sorts of changes is awesome!
   • Cherish the little things. Whenever you notice something small that reminds you how much you appreciate her, say it rather than just thinking it.
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   Compliment her often.
   Compliment her often. One important way of letting her know that you appreciate her is to compliment her. Instant mood-boosters, compliments are an important means for reminding her how much you care and notice about her. And the benefit of complimenting another person is that noticing their good points makes you feel good too. It's a reciprocal delight!
   • Be specific in your compliments. Instead of making a general remark about how beautiful she is, pinpoint specific aspects of her that amaze you, such as her eyes, her hair, the way she smiles, etc. When you single out a particular reason for why you like or love a person, it is far more effective than a generalized reason.
   • Ask questions that are a compliment. For example: "I love your earrings, they are perfect with your outfit. Where did you find them?" A question like this shows that you've noticed, that you think she looks great, and that she has good taste.
   • Keep complimenting her. The more compliments, the better! Naturally, don't overdo the compliments and pile them on her in the same hour but do keep complimenting her, even as you both settle into a normal routine together. Compliments are a definite way to keep the spark of love alive and thriving.
   • Be sincere. If your compliments or comments are not meant sincerely, they won't carry a genuine feeling and she'll pick up on this lack of sincerity. Dale Carnegie once said: ""Flattery is from the teeth out. Sincere appreciation is from the heart out"; only say things you feel in your heart and believe.
   • Be magnanimous. Compliments beget compliments, so you can be sure she'll return them.
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   Listen to her.
   Listen to her. This means really listening, so that you learn about her deepest fears, convictions, desires, and hopes. Remember what she tells you and occasionally do something that shows you've heard what her deepest wants are. And always be prepared to listen to her viewpoint about things. Even if you don't agree, it is vital to know the real reasons behind her viewpoint so that you can reach a compromise. Simply knowing you're prepared to listen and that you do is enough to cause most women to melt. The best way to let her know you're listening, and that you're interested, is to ask questions that provoke her to say more, so not just a yes or no question. Most of all listen without debating, fixing, or responding. A sincere showing that you care is ok. Just dont disagree when she finally trusts you enough to open up to you.
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   Use body language to make her melt.
   Use body language to make her melt. There are a lot of wonderful ways you can use to make a woman melt just through touch and body language. Remember that non-sexual touch is very important for women and is something you can put into play every day you see one another.
   • Stroke, rub, or simply touch her arms, hands, and neck. A simple touch as you go to the bathroom and return again when at dinner together can do wonders.
   • Stroke her hair. If it's windy, brush the hair out of her eyes and off her face.
   • Stand behind her, wrap your arms around her and hug her. You can kiss her neck, whisper in her ear or nibble her ears as well, if wished. Hold her hips with your hands.
   • When she rolls over to go to sleep, kiss her in between her shoulder blades. It's an erogenous zone.
   • Squeeze her hand three times for "I - love - you."
   • Kiss her eyelids, or give butterfly kisses (using your eyelashes) on her cheeks.
   • When introducing her to your friends and family, put your arm around her. If you're talking to a female friend, pull your woman closer to you. Or kiss her hand around your best buddies; that'll convince her she's worth it. This form of protective outward love sizzles.
   • Hug her. Hugs are great for cheering her up, for saying hello, and for reassuring her if she feels jealous.
   • Give her random kisses.
   • Flirt subtly in public. A public show of your affection and love for her is a display of your pride in being with her, months and years after the two of you first got together.
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   Ask for her help.
   Ask for her help. It's not only flattering when someone asks for your help but it's also an indicator that you trust her enough to let down that masculine guard and be vulnerable enough to admit that you need help. It's heart-melting.
   • Call her when you're feeling sad or down. She'll appreciate that you're seeking solace in her love.
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   Be of help.
   Be of help. Set aside assumptions that there are defined gender roles in a household. Lumping all the repetitive, tiring chores onto one person is not only unfair but it soon turns unsexy, for both of you. When you've settled down and made your love nest together, here are some ways to keep the woman in your life melting:
   • Make her breakfast in bed on the weekend. It doesn't have to be a special occasion. It's just because you love her.
   • Do things without having to be asked. Take care of the vacuuming, the pets, the pile of dishes. Repair broken stuff around the house. Just do it, and don't crow about it.
   • Pick her clothes up from the floor – this will charm her!
   • Take the trash out. Without having to be asked, not even once.
   • Take care of the kids for a day. Take them out and wear them out so they come home exhausted and don't want to hassle her! Or, give her the special delight of arranging an entire day of playing with them and feeding them at home, allowing her to just sit back and enjoy the sound of her children laughing and enjoying themselves all day. This is a combination that will definitely make her heart melt - you caring for the kids and them laughing with joy.
   • Cook breakfast or dinner for the whole family. If you're not already cooking for the family regularly, start making this a regular routine. Cooking is a great way to unwind, especially if you cook together, and taking turns in being responsible for household meals is sexy.
   • If she's sick, take care of her without asking. Make special meals, fetch her mail, fluff up her pillows, rub her back, get the temperature "just right", rent her favorite movies, and if you have kids, tell her not to worry, you're taking care of everything. And be understanding when she has PMS, not humiliating.
   • When she's tired, run her a warm bath with something scented in the water. Massage her for a decent length of time - a half hour minimum. Carry her to bed if she falls asleep anywhere else.
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   Be humorous and witty.
   Be humorous and witty. Humor easily melts a woman's heart because you're demonstrating to her that you can relax easily and see the funnier side of life. This disarms any tension and helps her to learn that you don't take yourself too seriously and that you're ready for a humorous take on even the most challenging issues the two of you might face together. Laugh a lot, and keep the warm smiles for her. And whenever she's feeling down, do your level best to make her laugh.
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    Commission a statue of the two of you
    Be a creative gift giver. Gifts are a lovely way to tell her that she's special, provided they're thoughtful and unique in nature.
    • Have the gift customized. For a small effort, you can make a common gift a personalized one, such as having a special message inscribed on a mug, t-shirt, or bracelet. Customization tells her that you spent time putting thought into its creation. When you combine that with a quick message: "I want you to know that I appreciate everything you do. I probably should tell you more. I think you're the complete package. So I'm giving you this bracelet to show how much I appreciate you", she'll melt.
    • For flowers, don't just buy the first bundle the florist has on offer. Go out of your way to select flowers that you know she loves, and find less used ones, such as violets or freesias. To really warm the cockles of her heart, make a bundle of flowers from flowers you took the time to pick yourself!
    • If you're going to give chocolates, choose handmade ones from a hard-to-find artisan chocolate shop. Or go all out and make them yourself!
    • Remember your anniversaries and arrange ways to celebrate them. And tickle her pink by mentioning an upcoming anniversary before she does!
    • Try to ensure she receives all "traditional" gifts from you early on in a relationship (for example, the stuffed animal, your sweater or sweatshirt, and a piece of jewelery). This is a form of initial reassurance that you're serious; after which, get creative!
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    Tell her how beautiful she is
    Say things that make women melt. Saying things that make her melt is very dependent on who she is and how well you know her. There isn't a one-size-fits-all formula but it is possible to provide some general sweet somethings that women themselves have said they melt when they hear! Here are some of you might like to try:
    • Acknowledge her sense of humor. Tell her: "Sweetie, you make me laugh."
    • Ask her "How was your day?" It's surprising how many times people forget this simple nicety. Yet, it means a lot because it's an open invitation to talk about oneself. And try to ask specific questions about her work or her day raising your children.
    • If you've been apart a few days, tell her you miss her. Something like: "Can't wait to see you; it feels like an eternity".
    • If things have been flagging a little lately in the romance department, tell her: "Honey, I want to increase the romance in our lives."
    • In public, say loud enough for people around you to hear: "Sweetie, I love you." And kiss her.
    • Call her for no other reason than to say: "I love you." Add an "I love you" in the middle of a conversation.
    • Tell her what you love about her body. For example: "Darling, you've got such an incredible body. Are you sure we've had three kids and 10 years together?"
    • Let her know she is beautiful. Telling a woman she is beautiful (and not just nice, pretty, or cute) is one of the most melt-worthy things you can say. Spice it up with "You are the most beautiful woman I've even known".
    • Tell her there's no one else like her. She's unique. And that nobody else in the world is as right for you as she is. Everyone likes being told how special they are. This is an especially powerful tonic if she's feeling insecure.
    • When you're getting ready to propose, tell her: "I cannot wait to spend every moment of my entire life with you."
    • Tell her that she makes you melt.
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    Enjoy each other's company and seek to have fun together.
    Enjoy each other's company and seek to have fun together. Sometimes it can be tempting to make a relationship too serious in its focus, or to try and be a serious couple in a way you think conforms to societal expectations, thereby deadening the spontaneity and fun in your lives together. Always take time to reinject fun into your being together, no matter how long you've been a couple.
    • Doing what she wants to do, especially the things she finds fun, is a ready-made way to make her melt. Put aside what you'd rather be doing and indulge her. This includes seeing a chick flick once in a while.
    • Take her to your favorite sport, spend more time talking to her (even it's to explain the sport) than watching it.
    • Do crazy things together once in a while to shake things up. Unexpected surprises will thrill her heart!