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कौन अपना है..??? ( A Poem by gimmy dagar )
कौन अपना है..
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Is duniya ki bheed mein
kaun apna hota hai
din mein to mehfilen lagti hai
aur raat mein tanhaa hota hai...
Is duniya ki bheed mein
kaun apna hota hai.........
Mehfil mein to har kisi se
waasta hai
thoda waqt gujar jaaye
ke bas alag-alag raasta hai...
Ujad jaaye mehfil to raat bhar kaun
soota hai
Is duniya ki bheed mein
kaun apna hota hai.......
Bheed mein akela
shour mein sunsaan hai
mar chuka hai kab se
magar fir bhi insaan hai....
Ek muddat ( had ) ke baad bhi
soch kar rota hai
Is duniya ki bheed mein
kaun apna hota hai.............????????
kaun apna hota hai.........
Mehfil mein to har kisi se
waasta hai
thoda waqt gujar jaaye
ke bas alag-alag raasta hai...
Ujad jaaye mehfil to raat bhar kaun
soota hai
Is duniya ki bheed mein
kaun apna hota hai.......
Bheed mein akela
shour mein sunsaan hai
mar chuka hai kab se
magar fir bhi insaan hai....
Ek muddat ( had ) ke baad bhi
soch kar rota hai
Is duniya ki bheed mein
kaun apna hota hai.............????????
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Wednesday, 2 November 2011
How To Make Women Melt ( By Gimmy Dagar )
How To Make Women Melt
Few men are blessed with a scriptwriter to produce the perfect words and actions that will have women swooning. In the movies, it seems so straightforward. In some respects, it is, provided you're genuine and focused on how much she means to you.
Knowing what to say and do to make a woman's heart melt is one part listening, one part knowing your woman inside-out, and one part self-trust.In this article, you'll learn some of the ways that can make a woman melt, resulting in you remaining the most appealing man in her life and her feeling as special as it's possible to feel.
Steps
- 1Respect her intelligence. Respecting a woman's intelligence shows that you hold her in high personal regard. This means putting aside the corny pick-up lines, gender jokes or put-downs, setting aside any laziness about pulling your weight in daily chores, and refusing to make assumptions that she wants to be babied. Flirt with her intelligence as much as her beauty and sexiness and you'll make her melt.
Respect her intelligence. - 2Demonstrate that you're her friend. Friendship is melt-worthy because it indicates your intention to be by her side long-term regardless of your status as partner or lover. Being a friend shows that you're willing to be there through thick and thin, that you're trustworthy, and that you esteem her as someone in whom you're willing to share the deepest confidences. Letting her know that you count her as a best friend will cause her to melt because women place great value on friendships and see friendship as being at the heart of any good relationship.
Demonstrate that you're her friend.- Tell her that she is your best friend, or the dearest friend you've ever had. She will be filled with joy to hear this. Remind her frequently.
- 3Tell her how much she is appreciated. You can never underestimate the power of appreciating another person for who they are, particularly the special woman in your life. It isn't enough to just say that you're thankful to have her in your life; it's important to spell out why. The details matter because they go to the core of who she is and how her essence is reflected in your eyes. If you're able to produce one little detail that reveals why you are personally appreciative of the fact that she is in your life, you will likely make her melt.
Tell her how much she is appreciated.- Notice what she does to help others, including yourself, and make a comment about how much you value her generosity and kindness. Tell her that you really appreciate her ability to help and care for others.
- Pay attention to her appearance changes – tell her you love her new hair style or her new clothes. Paying attention to these sorts of changes is awesome!
- Cherish the little things. Whenever you notice something small that reminds you how much you appreciate her, say it rather than just thinking it.
- 4Compliment her often. One important way of letting her know that you appreciate her is to compliment her. Instant mood-boosters, compliments are an important means for reminding her how much you care and notice about her. And the benefit of complimenting another person is that noticing their good points makes you feel good too. It's a reciprocal delight!
Compliment her often.- Be specific in your compliments. Instead of making a general remark about how beautiful she is, pinpoint specific aspects of her that amaze you, such as her eyes, her hair, the way she smiles, etc. When you single out a particular reason for why you like or love a person, it is far more effective than a generalized reason.
- Ask questions that are a compliment. For example: "I love your earrings, they are perfect with your outfit. Where did you find them?" A question like this shows that you've noticed, that you think she looks great, and that she has good taste.
- Keep complimenting her. The more compliments, the better! Naturally, don't overdo the compliments and pile them on her in the same hour but do keep complimenting her, even as you both settle into a normal routine together. Compliments are a definite way to keep the spark of love alive and thriving.
- Be sincere. If your compliments or comments are not meant sincerely, they won't carry a genuine feeling and she'll pick up on this lack of sincerity. Dale Carnegie once said: ""Flattery is from the teeth out. Sincere appreciation is from the heart out"; only say things you feel in your heart and believe.
- Be magnanimous. Compliments beget compliments, so you can be sure she'll return them.
- 5Listen to her. This means really listening, so that you learn about her deepest fears, convictions, desires, and hopes. Remember what she tells you and occasionally do something that shows you've heard what her deepest wants are. And always be prepared to listen to her viewpoint about things. Even if you don't agree, it is vital to know the real reasons behind her viewpoint so that you can reach a compromise. Simply knowing you're prepared to listen and that you do is enough to cause most women to melt. The best way to let her know you're listening, and that you're interested, is to ask questions that provoke her to say more, so not just a yes or no question. Most of all listen without debating, fixing, or responding. A sincere showing that you care is ok. Just dont disagree when she finally trusts you enough to open up to you.
Listen to her. - 6Use body language to make her melt. There are a lot of wonderful ways you can use to make a woman melt just through touch and body language. Remember that non-sexual touch is very important for women and is something you can put into play every day you see one another.
Use body language to make her melt.- Stroke, rub, or simply touch her arms, hands, and neck. A simple touch as you go to the bathroom and return again when at dinner together can do wonders.
- Stroke her hair. If it's windy, brush the hair out of her eyes and off her face.
- Stand behind her, wrap your arms around her and hug her. You can kiss her neck, whisper in her ear or nibble her ears as well, if wished. Hold her hips with your hands.
- When she rolls over to go to sleep, kiss her in between her shoulder blades. It's an erogenous zone.
- Squeeze her hand three times for "I - love - you."
- Kiss her eyelids, or give butterfly kisses (using your eyelashes) on her cheeks.
- When introducing her to your friends and family, put your arm around her. If you're talking to a female friend, pull your woman closer to you. Or kiss her hand around your best buddies; that'll convince her she's worth it. This form of protective outward love sizzles.
- Hug her. Hugs are great for cheering her up, for saying hello, and for reassuring her if she feels jealous.
- Give her random kisses.
- Flirt subtly in public. A public show of your affection and love for her is a display of your pride in being with her, months and years after the two of you first got together.
- 7Ask for her help. It's not only flattering when someone asks for your help but it's also an indicator that you trust her enough to let down that masculine guard and be vulnerable enough to admit that you need help. It's heart-melting.
Ask for her help.- Call her when you're feeling sad or down. She'll appreciate that you're seeking solace in her love.
- 8Be of help. Set aside assumptions that there are defined gender roles in a household. Lumping all the repetitive, tiring chores onto one person is not only unfair but it soon turns unsexy, for both of you. When you've settled down and made your love nest together, here are some ways to keep the woman in your life melting:
Be of help.- Make her breakfast in bed on the weekend. It doesn't have to be a special occasion. It's just because you love her.
- Do things without having to be asked. Take care of the vacuuming, the pets, the pile of dishes. Repair broken stuff around the house. Just do it, and don't crow about it.
- Pick her clothes up from the floor – this will charm her!
- Take the trash out. Without having to be asked, not even once.
- Take care of the kids for a day. Take them out and wear them out so they come home exhausted and don't want to hassle her! Or, give her the special delight of arranging an entire day of playing with them and feeding them at home, allowing her to just sit back and enjoy the sound of her children laughing and enjoying themselves all day. This is a combination that will definitely make her heart melt - you caring for the kids and them laughing with joy.
- Cook breakfast or dinner for the whole family. If you're not already cooking for the family regularly, start making this a regular routine. Cooking is a great way to unwind, especially if you cook together, and taking turns in being responsible for household meals is sexy.
- If she's sick, take care of her without asking. Make special meals, fetch her mail, fluff up her pillows, rub her back, get the temperature "just right", rent her favorite movies, and if you have kids, tell her not to worry, you're taking care of everything. And be understanding when she has PMS, not humiliating.
- When she's tired, run her a warm bath with something scented in the water. Massage her for a decent length of time - a half hour minimum. Carry her to bed if she falls asleep anywhere else.
- 9Be humorous and witty. Humor easily melts a woman's heart because you're demonstrating to her that you can relax easily and see the funnier side of life. This disarms any tension and helps her to learn that you don't take yourself too seriously and that you're ready for a humorous take on even the most challenging issues the two of you might face together. Laugh a lot, and keep the warm smiles for her. And whenever she's feeling down, do your level best to make her laugh.
Be humorous and witty. - 10Be a creative gift giver. Gifts are a lovely way to tell her that she's special, provided they're thoughtful and unique in nature.
Commission a statue of the two of you- Have the gift customized. For a small effort, you can make a common gift a personalized one, such as having a special message inscribed on a mug, t-shirt, or bracelet. Customization tells her that you spent time putting thought into its creation. When you combine that with a quick message: "I want you to know that I appreciate everything you do. I probably should tell you more. I think you're the complete package. So I'm giving you this bracelet to show how much I appreciate you", she'll melt.
- For flowers, don't just buy the first bundle the florist has on offer. Go out of your way to select flowers that you know she loves, and find less used ones, such as violets or freesias. To really warm the cockles of her heart, make a bundle of flowers from flowers you took the time to pick yourself!
- If you're going to give chocolates, choose handmade ones from a hard-to-find artisan chocolate shop. Or go all out and make them yourself!
- Remember your anniversaries and arrange ways to celebrate them. And tickle her pink by mentioning an upcoming anniversary before she does!
- Try to ensure she receives all "traditional" gifts from you early on in a relationship (for example, the stuffed animal, your sweater or sweatshirt, and a piece of jewelery). This is a form of initial reassurance that you're serious; after which, get creative!
- 11Say things that make women melt. Saying things that make her melt is very dependent on who she is and how well you know her. There isn't a one-size-fits-all formula but it is possible to provide some general sweet somethings that women themselves have said they melt when they hear! Here are some of you might like to try:
Tell her how beautiful she is- Acknowledge her sense of humor. Tell her: "Sweetie, you make me laugh."
- Ask her "How was your day?" It's surprising how many times people forget this simple nicety. Yet, it means a lot because it's an open invitation to talk about oneself. And try to ask specific questions about her work or her day raising your children.
- If you've been apart a few days, tell her you miss her. Something like: "Can't wait to see you; it feels like an eternity".
- If things have been flagging a little lately in the romance department, tell her: "Honey, I want to increase the romance in our lives."
- In public, say loud enough for people around you to hear: "Sweetie, I love you." And kiss her.
- Call her for no other reason than to say: "I love you." Add an "I love you" in the middle of a conversation.
- Tell her what you love about her body. For example: "Darling, you've got such an incredible body. Are you sure we've had three kids and 10 years together?"
- Let her know she is beautiful. Telling a woman she is beautiful (and not just nice, pretty, or cute) is one of the most melt-worthy things you can say. Spice it up with "You are the most beautiful woman I've even known".
- Tell her there's no one else like her. She's unique. And that nobody else in the world is as right for you as she is. Everyone likes being told how special they are. This is an especially powerful tonic if she's feeling insecure.
- When you're getting ready to propose, tell her: "I cannot wait to spend every moment of my entire life with you."
- Tell her that she makes you melt.
- 12Enjoy each other's company and seek to have fun together. Sometimes it can be tempting to make a relationship too serious in its focus, or to try and be a serious couple in a way you think conforms to societal expectations, thereby deadening the spontaneity and fun in your lives together. Always take time to reinject fun into your being together, no matter how long you've been a couple.
Enjoy each other's company and seek to have fun together.- Doing what she wants to do, especially the things she finds fun, is a ready-made way to make her melt. Put aside what you'd rather be doing and indulge her. This includes seeing a chick flick once in a while.
- Take her to your favorite sport, spend more time talking to her (even it's to explain the sport) than watching it.
- Do crazy things together once in a while to shake things up. Unexpected surprises will thrill her heart!
How to Make Your Girlfriend Like You More ( by gimmy Dagar )
How to Make Your Girlfriend Like You More
- This is only for the ones that already have a girlfriend and if you don't or you wanted to read an article about how to get one, search again. You might even find the one I made.
- 2No matter how far away you are from her, always think about her.
- 3Think about what you will do next and how you will do it.
- 4If you have trouble starting a conversation with her, ask her.... how her day went or what she wants to do.
- 5Plan ahead. Never make up stuff when you are already with her. It sometimes ruins the mood.
- 6Make her feel that you want to be her.
- 7Compliment her by saying how beautiful she looks today or how she looks good on her dress.
- 8Never ever say anything that would offend her or "turn her off".
- 9If you just started the relationship don't give her too much presents.
- 10Wait until for a month or two and give her like an Anniversary Present.
- 11Find out what she likes. Ask her friends if you can. Don't ask her because you might say your going to give it to her.
- 12Girls likes surprises so don't ruin it if you have one.
- 13Flowers are best things to give if she is going through a rough time.
- 14If she is sad, make her feel better by giving her a hug and asking why she's feeling that way.
- 15Don't go straight to it. Ease into it by asking what happened or how did this happened.
- 16Do more things with her.
- 17If she plays a sport, try your hardest to join that sport.
- 18If its a team sport like badminton, grab the opportunity as soon as you see it. If she's alone ask her if you can play her or to play together.
- 19Never say you don't like what she likes even if you do.
- 20Make friends with hers. But don't be nicer to her friends that to your girlfriend. You might make her jealous.
- 21Don't move away from her. Keep close so she knows you want to be.
- 22If someone asks you to come with them and your talking with your girlfriend, tell them to wait and ask her if she wants to come with you. If she says no then tell her that you'll come back as soon as possible. They don't want you to be away from them for so long.
- 23Don't ever listen to those who say that your a bad boyfriend or that your not too good for her.
- 24They might be jealous so don't believe them.
- 25Don't let them put you down. It might ruin your relationship.
- 26If you think your relationship might be going too fast or too slow, ask your girlfriend if she wants a more suitable speed.
- 27If ever your girlfriend is getting harassed or offended by someone even your own friend, tell them to stop right away.
- 28Don't go starting a fight. You might get hurt yourself and not be with her if she really needed you.
- 29Move her away from those who harrassed her and make as if she's safe with you now.
- 30Protecting her will always make them trust you more and that they will know that you will always be there as soon as she needs you.
- 31Don't over-do it. If she hurts herself like a scratch or a little bump, don't go motherly over her. Ask her if she's alright and if only it serious then start helping her out.
- 32I'M NOT FINISHED WITH THIS ARTICLE YET. WAIT FOR THESE LARGER SENTENCES TO GO AWAY, THEN YOU WILL KNOW THAT THIS ARTICLE WILL BE FINISHED.
- 33invite your girlfriend to come to your home to visit your parents and relative, this make her feel that she is very important for you.
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